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Abigail Borquaye

Abigail Borquaye, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 19+ years of experience

Empathic counsellor for relationship and midlife change

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  • Relationship focus
  • Client-centred
  • Speaks Twi

About Abigail

Abigail Borquaye is a counsellor who helps people facing relationship difficulties, family stress, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, depression, anxiety and midlife concerns. She works with issues such as addictions, grief, intimacy problems, parenting challenges and career-related strain. Abigail communicates in English and Twi and has nearly two decades of experience in the field.

She describes her practice as client-centred, placing the relationship between counsellor and client at the heart of the work. Sessions focus on listening, making sense of difficult experiences and finding practical steps forward. Abigail also draws on attachment-based ideas and psychodynamic perspectives to understand patterns that repeat in relationships.

Her approach is straightforward and supportive. She offers a space where people can speak about abandonment, codependency, control issues, anger or the impact of past abuse. Practical tools from cognitive behavioural therapy and solution-focused thinking are used when helpful to address day-to-day problems.

Abigail has worked with women and families for many years before training as a counsellor, and she brings 19 years of overall experience to her practice. She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP.

People who work with her can expect a conversational style that balances reflection with action. The aim is to help clients understand recurring patterns and to try manageable changes that fit their life. International clients may be accepted, and sessions can be discussed when booking.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Psychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

19+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Twi

How Abigail’s approaches work in online counselling

Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape current patterns. It helps people understand why they react in certain ways in close relationships and can be useful for addressing abandonment and attachment issues.

Client-centred therapy focuses on a kind, non-judgemental relationship. The counsellor listens closely and helps people find their own solutions, which can suit those dealing with low self-worth, life changes or relationship stress.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. Abigail will talk with clients about their needs and goals and decide together which methods to try. That collaborative planning helps tailor sessions to personal preferences and practical circumstances.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit counselling into a busy life. It can reduce travel time and allow sessions around work or caregiving schedules. If you want to check which session formats are available, confirm the specific options when booking so you know what will work best for you.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Abigail help with?

She supports people with relationship and family issues, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, depression, anxiety, addictions, grief and midlife changes. Additional concerns she works with include anger, intimacy problems, parenting strain and career questions.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is client-centred and conversational, with an emphasis on the working relationship. She blends listening and reflection with practical steps to help people manage daily difficulties.

What is her experience in counselling?

She brings 19 years of experience, having worked with women and families before professional training and throughout her counselling career.

What credentials and location are listed for this counsellor?

She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages can sessions be held in?

Sessions are offered in English and Twi.

Can international clients work with her?

Yes, international clients are accepted; anyone considering this should confirm arrangements when they begin the booking process.

How are sessions charged and paid for?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What are the steps to begin working together?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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