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Alan Kutner

Alan Kutner, LCSW-C

Therapist · Maryland · 6+ years of experience

Practical, person-focused support for life transitions

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  • Client-centered approach
  • Evidence-informed tools
  • Focus on midlife issues

About Alan

Alan Kutner is a licensed clinical social worker in Maryland who centers therapy on understanding each person’s experience. He uses straightforward conversation to help people make sense of their stress, anxiety, addiction struggles, relationship problems, trauma, and depression. Sessions aim to be practical and grounded so clients can take steps forward between meetings.

He brings six years of clinical experience to his work and relies on approaches that emphasize the client’s own voice. In sessions he listens for where patterns cause suffering and then helps people try small, doable changes. He focuses on attachment and abandonment concerns, communication problems, codependency, and issues that grow out of family origins.

His methods include client-centered work, cognitive behavioral techniques, dialectical behavior tools, mindfulness practices, and trauma-focused strategies. That mix lets him tailor the work to a person’s goals, whether the need is to manage intense feelings, reduce avoidance, or build healthier boundaries.

People meet him to address chronic stress, depression, and substance-related concerns as well as caregiving strain, chronic illness, dissociation, and separation. He talks openly about how habits form and what can shift when small steps add up.

He encourages a collaborative process where decisions about direction and pace come from the person in therapy. To begin, prospective clients follow the site’s Start Therapy process and complete the matching questionnaire to schedule a session.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseDepression

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

Maryland

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Client-centered therapy focuses on the person’s own priorities. The therapist listens deeply, reflects what is said, and helps the person set goals that feel right to them. This approach supports work on relationship concerns, attachment issues, and feelings of emptiness.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors connect. It uses practical exercises to test unhelpful thinking and build new habits that reduce anxiety, depression, and addictive patterns.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy, DBT, teaches concrete skills for managing intense emotions, improving communication, and tolerating distress. It can be useful when overwhelming feelings, impulsivity, or relationship conflicts get in the way of daily life.

Finding the right approach is part of the process and typically happens together. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped before, then adjust methods over time. That collaborative decision-making helps keep the work relevant and manageable.

Practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions into a busy schedule and reducing travel time. Because the biography does not specify which session formats are offered, confirm current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to keep regular meetings, try brief check-ins, or use video for skills practice depending on what the therapist offers.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Alan commonly address?

He works with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship strain, trauma and depression, plus related issues such as attachment, abandonment, codependency, and family origin problems.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

Sessions are practical and collaborative with an emphasis on listening and clear steps. He blends client-centered conversation with CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and trauma-focused strategies.

What is his background and experience?

He has six years of clinical experience working in mental health settings and uses a mix of approaches to tailor care to individual needs.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He holds an LCSW-C license in Maryland and practices there.

Which languages are supported and are international clients accepted?

Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does pricing work for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What are the steps to get started?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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