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Alan McNeill

Alan McNeill, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 24+ years of experience

Experienced counsellor for midlife change and loss

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  • Client-centred approach
  • Mindfulness practice
  • Trauma-informed care

About Alan

Alan McNeill is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom with 24 years of experience. He helps people who are feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, grief or the long shadow of a difficult childhood. He also works with people in the LGBT community and those coping with trauma or lowered self-esteem.

Alan tends to work by listening closely and helping people find the resources they already have. He uses a child/adult model to make sense of how early experiences affect present reactions. Mindfulness practices are used to strengthen attention and reduce reactivity in day-to-day life.

Over two decades in the NHS, private practice and community organisations have shaped his approach. He has worked with hospice services, cancer support groups and LGBT health projects, and has supported people dealing with bereavement, parental addiction, domestic abuse and identity-related isolation.

Sessions focus on practical steps as well as reflection. Alan helps clients recognise unhelpful patterns, practise new ways of relating, and manage strong emotions more effectively. He invites people to try techniques in between meetings so change can be noticed outside the therapy room.

He is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, which is listed as his credential. To begin, people choose a Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersNarcissismPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexuality

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyMindfulness TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

24+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches translate to online support

Alan describes Client-Centred Therapy as a way of placing the person's experience at the centre of sessions, with the counsellor offering attentive listening and reflection to help people make sense of their difficulties. This approach helps when someone needs space to tell their story and explore feelings without being judged.

Mindfulness Therapy is offered as straightforward attention training and simple practices. These exercises help reduce reactivity, steady attention and make daily stress easier to manage. They can be practised between sessions to support small, steady change.

Trauma-Focused Therapy is used to help people who are living with the effects of abuse or difficult early experiences. The work aims to contain the impact of past events and reduce how much those events shape current reactions.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the process. The therapist will work collaboratively to identify which methods fit a person's needs, goals and preferences, and adapt the work as progress unfolds.

Practical benefits of online therapy include easier fitting of sessions into a busy week and being able to meet from different locations without travel. Because the original biography does not list specific session formats, confirm the available options before booking. Online meetings can make it simpler to keep short check-ins, practise mindfulness between sessions and maintain continuity of care when life gets hectic.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this counsellor address?

He supports people facing stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem and the effects of trauma or childhood difficulties, including issues linked to LGBT identity.

How would sessions feel in practice?

Work is conversational and practical, with active listening and gentle challenge. Mindfulness and a child/adult model are used to make sense of patterns and build everyday coping skills.

What is his professional background?

He has 24 years of experience working in the NHS, private practice and community organisations such as hospice care, cancer support and LGBT health projects.

Which credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is listed with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

Can I work with him if I live outside the UK?

Sessions are offered in English and he is not currently accepting international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original profile does not specify formats; please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to try therapy?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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