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Dr. Andrew Mendonsa

Dr. Andrew Mendonsa, CO Psychologist PSY.0005062, CA Psychologist PSY23208

Therapist · California · 22+ years of experience

Insightful psychologist focused on practical change

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  • Goal oriented
  • LGBTQ affirming
  • Practical strategies

About Andrew

Dr. Andrew Mendonsa is a clinical psychologist with more than two decades of experience. He helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, and midlife transitions. He also works with LGBTQ clients and people navigating sexuality, kink, and alternative relationship styles who want a nonjudgmental space to talk. Dr. Mendonsa practices in California and sees clients in English. He takes a practical, collaborative approach. Sessions focus on clear goals and steps you can use between meetings. He blends methods like cognitive behavioral work, acceptance and commitment ideas, attachment-focused conversations, and skills from dialectical behavior therapy to match what a person needs in the moment. His background spans community mental health, addiction services, work in the criminal justice system, and clinical work with high-achieving professionals. That range shapes his view of how stress and identity concerns show up in real life and at work. He draws on that experience when helping people manage burnout, career shifts, or relationship changes. When problematic sexual behavior or compulsive patterns are present, he aims to identify what motivates the behavior before making changes. That means setting practical goals and building coping strategies rather than using shame or simple prescriptions. The focus is on measurable steps toward healthier functioning. Getting started involves a brief matching questionnaire and scheduling the first session. Fees vary by location and use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefSleeping disordersParenting issuesCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

22+ years

Credentials

California, Arizona, Arkansas, Colorado, Hawaii, Michigan, Nevada, New Mexico, Utah, Virginia

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches guide online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying values and taking small committed actions in line with those values; it helps people move forward when stuck by building workable habits. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect and teaches concrete strategies to change unhelpful patterns and reduce symptoms like anxiety or depression. Attachment-Based Therapy examines relationship patterns that started early and helps people develop healthier ways to connect and rely on others. Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, what has or hasn't worked before, and preferences for how to work. Together they pick methods and adjust them as progress is made so sessions stay focused on what matters to the client. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life by removing travel time and allowing conversations during breaks or from a convenient spot. It can also make brief check-ins or skill practice simpler to schedule. Session formats are not specified here, so confirm current options before booking to ensure they match your needs. Many people find that remote sessions help them maintain consistency while working toward career, relationship, or midlife goals.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist commonly address?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, addictions, grief, and midlife transitions, among other concerns.

What is the therapist's style in sessions?

Sessions are collaborative and goal-focused, combining practical steps with skills practice to help people make tangible change between meetings.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He brings 22 years of professional experience across community mental health, addiction services, criminal justice settings, and work with high-achieving professionals.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

He is listed as CO Psychologist PSY.0005062 and CA Psychologist PSY23208 and practices in California.

Which languages are supported and can international clients work together?

Sessions are offered in English, and international clients are accepted.

What session formats are offered?

Session formats are not specified here; please confirm current session options before booking.

How does pricing work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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