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Darryl Khan

Darryl Khan, LMHC

Therapist · Hawaii · 20+ years of experience

Change-focused counselor with practical skills

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  • Skills-based methods
  • Values and meaning
  • Compassionate style

About Darryl

Darryl Khan is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) practicing in Hawaii. He brings two decades of clinical experience to sessions and focuses on stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, and life changes such as midlife transitions.

He uses practical, skills-based methods to help people manage symptoms and move through difficult moments. Sessions focus on clear strategies and small, manageable steps. Darryl aims for a straightforward, compassionate approach that fits each person's life.

Over 20 years he has worked with people facing chronic mental health concerns, substance use challenges, and family or legal system involvement. That background informs how he navigates complex situations in therapy. He also brings experience supporting grief, parenting strain, career concerns, and issues around intimacy and self-esteem.

His practice draws on cognitive behavioral techniques and dialectical behavior ideas to build concrete coping skills. He also integrates existential therapy to help people clarify values and meaning during transitions. The work blends practical tools with deeper reflection about choices and purpose.

People describe sessions as interactive and culturally aware, with an emphasis on real-world changes. Darryl encourages collaboration about goals and methods. Prospective clients in Hawaii who want a direct, pragmatic counselor can learn more through the platform’s intake process.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Existential Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Hawaii

Languages

English

How CBT, DBT, and Existential Ideas Shape Online Work

CBT, or Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing them with practical experiments and behavior shifts to reduce symptoms such as anxiety and depression. DBT, or Dialectical Behavior Therapy, teaches emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and interpersonal skills to help manage intense feelings and relationship conflicts. Existential therapy invites people to reflect on values, purpose, and life choices to help during transitions like a midlife reassessment.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. The therapist will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit best based on goals, needs, and preferences. That collaboration can mean combining skills training with deeper reflection so work stays relevant to daily life.

Please confirm current session options before booking, as specific online formats are not listed here. Many clients find online work helps fit therapy into busy schedules, makes follow-ups easier, and supports steady progress between sessions. Practical benefits include fitting sessions around work, using shorter check-ins when needed, and applying learned skills in real time between meetings.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he help with?

Darryl works with a broad range of concerns including stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, relationship difficulties, grief, and midlife transitions.

What is his therapy style like?

His approach is interactive and pragmatic, focusing on clear strategies, coping skills, and thoughtful reflection about values and choices.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has around 20 years of experience as a mental health counselor in Hawaii, including work with chronic mental illnesses and substance use challenges.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor - LMHC - practicing in Hawaii.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does he work with clients outside the U.S.?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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