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Dilnia Horton

Dilnia Horton, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 13+ years of experience

Experienced counsellor for life transitions

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  • Practical coping tools
  • Relationship focus
  • English and Kurdish

About Dilnia

Dilnia Horton BACP welcomes people facing relationship strain, parenting pressures, body image worries and low self-esteem. She writes plainly and listens closely to help people sort through what matters most. Her manner is direct but warm, and she aims to make sessions easy to follow for someone on a busy schedule.

She uses clear, practical conversations to identify patterns that cause distress. That often means looking at how thoughts, emotions and past experiences shape present choices. Sessions include straightforward tools from cognitive approaches alongside attention to emotions and long‑standing relational patterns.

With 13 years of experience, Horton draws on a mix of methods to suit different problems. She blends cognitive behavioural ideas with emotionally‑focused and psychodynamic ways of working. Mindfulness practices are also used to help people manage stress and stay present during difficult moments.

Her work covers relationship and family concerns, eating and body image issues, parenting struggles and self‑esteem problems. Additional areas she supports include abandonment, attachment matters, blended family adjustments, caregiver stress and separation or divorce issues.

Sessions are conducted in English and Kurdish and take place in the United Kingdom. She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP. To begin, clients follow a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to availability.

Horton focuses on helping people make practical changes and feel steadier in day‑to‑day life. She encourages small, realistic steps so progress can be noticed between sessions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsEating disordersParenting issues

Also works with

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

13+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, Kurdish

How her approaches translate to online work

CBT is focused on the connection between thoughts, feelings and behaviours. It offers practical steps and exercises to try between sessions, which can help with anxiety, low mood, eating concerns and unhelpful thinking patterns.

Emotionally‑Focused Therapy pays attention to emotional experience in relationships. It helps people identify core feelings and improve communication patterns that affect close connections and commitment issues.

She uses mindfulness practices to build present‑moment awareness and reduce reactivity. These exercises are short and can be integrated into daily routines to support stress management and body image work.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will discuss goals and preferences, then suggest which methods to try. That choice can change over time as needs and progress become clearer.

Confirm session options before booking so you know how appointments are arranged. Many people find online work useful for fitting therapy around family life, work breaks or caregiving duties. It can make regular check‑ins simpler and help maintain momentum between meetings without needing travel.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She supports people facing relationship and family difficulties, parenting strain, eating and body image concerns, and low self‑esteem. There are also experience areas like abandonment, attachment issues and separation.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is direct and warm, using clear discussions and practical tools. She combines cognitive, emotion‑focused and reflective approaches to suit the person.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 13 years of professional experience working in mental health and counselling roles.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, listed as BACP, and works in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and Kurdish.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

She does not take international clients at this time.

How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?

Costs vary by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

What do I need to do to start working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

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