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Donna Mcallister

Donna Mcallister, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 3+ years of experience

Compassionate counselling for midlife concerns

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  • Gentle practical support
  • ACT and CBT informed
  • Experienced listener

About Donna

Donna Mcallister is a counsellor who uses a straightforward, client-centred style to help people facing midlife questions and other life stresses. She holds a Bachelor of Arts in Therapeutic Counselling (HONS) and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, with three years of professional experience. Her manner is calm and down-to-earth, and she aims to create a respectful space for people to talk things through.

Donna helps people who are dealing with stress, anxiety and depression that can lead to burnout. She also supports those managing relationship issues, self-esteem struggles, grief and the strain of life changes. Practical coping skills and clearer thinking about next steps are common goals in sessions.

Her work draws on several approaches including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Attachment-Based work. Sessions focus on what matters to the person, noticing thoughts and feelings, and trying out small changes that feel manageable. She uses Client-Centred listening alongside techniques from Dialectical Behaviour Therapy when helpful.

Donna has experience addressing a wide range of concerns beyond mood, such as addiction, ADHD, parenting strains, chronic illness and body image. She also supports people exploring intimacy, sexuality and identity, including LGBT issues and kink-aware conversations.

People who come to Donna can expect a steady, respectful approach and help in deciding practical next steps. The first session usually looks at immediate worries and what the person hopes to change, then they plan how to move forward together.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyImago Relationship TherapyJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches guide online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, and then choose actions that match their values. It can be useful for midlife re-evaluation, anxiety and motivation problems. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and teaches practical skills to change unhelpful patterns, which often helps with depression and anxiety. Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns formed in important relationships and how they affect current connections and emotional safety, which can be helpful for relationship issues and intimacy concerns.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk through the options, listen to the person's goals and preferences, and decide collaboratively which methods to try. That may mean mixing elements from different approaches to fit the person's situation.

The original biography does not specify which online session formats are offered, so please confirm available options before booking. In general, online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life by reducing travel time and allowing appointments during a work break or at home. They can also allow shorter check-ins when a full session is not needed, or help people who prefer not to attend in person. Registered or accredited professionals can guide practical steps for arranging sessions that fit daily routines and goals.

Frequently asked questions

What problems does Donna commonly help with?

She works with people facing stress, anxiety, depression and the effects of burnout, as well as relationship difficulties, grief and major life changes.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her style is client-centred and straightforward, combining listening with practical tools drawn from ACT, CBT and DBT to help people try different ways of coping.

How much professional experience does she have?

Donna has three years of professional counselling experience and a Bachelor of Arts in Therapeutic Counselling (HONS).

Where is she based and what credentials does she hold?

She is based in the United Kingdom and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP).

Which languages and international work are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options with the platform before booking.

How are fees and payments handled?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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