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Elli Billingsley

Elli Billingsley, LPC

Therapist · Oklahoma · 3+ years of experience

Warm, client-centered counseling for life transitions

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  • Oklahoma LPC
  • Focus on midlife change
  • Support for LGBTQ concerns

About Elli

Elli Billingsley is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Oklahoma. She holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology and a master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling from Oklahoma State University. Elli takes a warm, empathetic approach and focuses on helping people feel heard and supported during hard times.

She aims to create an affirming space where clients can talk about what matters to them. Elli emphasizes a strong therapeutic relationship and a non-judgmental tone in sessions. She adapts her approach to the needs of each person rather than using a single method for everyone.

Her work blends client-centered methods with Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and she also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and mindfulness techniques. For younger clients, she incorporates play-based activities and trauma-focused CBT strategies when appropriate. These tools are used to address stress, anxiety, depression, identity concerns, grief, and life transitions.

Elli lists a broad range of concerns she addresses, including relationship and family issues, parenting challenges, eating and body image, ADHD, compassion fatigue, and career matter. She also notes additional focus areas such as attachment and aging questions, adoption and foster care topics, chronic illness and caregiver stress, and alternative sexual culture concerns.

With three years of professional experience, Elli works to help people feel safer with their thoughts and choices. She encourages practical steps and steady progress so clients can move toward the goals they set together.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

Oklahoma

Languages

English

Approaches that guide online work and progress

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) encourages people to notice difficult thoughts without getting stuck in them and to take values-driven action. It can help with anxiety, depression, and major life changes by focusing on what matters most. Client-Centered Therapy centers the person's experience, with the therapist offering empathy and acceptance to help people feel heard and to build trust in the room. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts and behaviors influence feelings and gives clear strategies to change unhelpful patterns, which is useful for anxiety, mood, and coping skills.

Choosing a therapeutic approach is a collaborative process. Elli will work with each person to figure out which methods fit best for their goals and preferences, and she adjusts plans as progress is made. That way the work matches what the person wants to achieve rather than sticking to one fixed method.

Session formats are not detailed here, so confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make scheduling easier and let sessions fit into a busy day. It can reduce travel time, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and let people use video or audio depending on what works best for them and their bandwidth. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises used in ACT, CBT, and client-centered work to the online setting to keep therapy practical and goal-focused.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can Elli help with?

Elli works with many concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, identity and LGBT matters, trauma and grief, relationship and family questions, parenting struggles, and career or life-change issues.

What is Elli's therapy style like?

Her style is warm and client-centered, focused on listening and building a strong therapeutic relationship while using practical strategies tailored to each person.

What training and background does she bring?

She holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology and a master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling from Oklahoma State University, with three years of clinical experience.

Where is Elli licensed to practice?

She is a Licensed Professional Counselor with an Oklahoma LPC credential and provides services from Oklahoma.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients served?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with Elli?

To get started, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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