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Erwin Gilliam

Erwin Gilliam, LPC

Therapist · Mississippi · 5+ years of experience

Midlife-focused counselor and goal planner

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  • Goal focused
  • Practical tools
  • Respectful listener

About Erwin

Erwin Gilliam is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Mississippi who helps people facing midlife concerns alongside relationship, anger, self-esteem, career, parenting, depression, and ADHD challenges. He frames the first sessions around what matters most to each person and works with clear goals. His tone is practical and respectful, aimed at people who want straightforward help and tools they can use right away.

Gilliam draws on five years of direct counseling experience and a master’s degree in organizational counseling psychology. He also holds an educator's license with endorsements in school counseling and administration. His background includes three years as a school counselor, seven years as an assistant principal, and one year as a head principal in public schools.

In session he most often uses cognitive behavioral approaches to help people notice patterns, try small changes, and measure what works. He also integrates client-centered listening and mindfulness exercises to slow down stressful reactions. Motivational interviewing and solution-focused techniques may be used to build motivation and set practical steps forward.

He aims to treat people with dignity, sensitivity, and compassion. Sessions focus on collaborative goal-setting and concrete strategies for daily life. The therapist frames progress as teamwork, where you and he decide what to try next.

If you are weighing career shifts, relationship strain, parenting stress, or the sense of emptiness that can come in midlife, Gilliam offers a straightforward, goal-oriented approach to help you clarify priorities and move toward change.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoaching

Also works with

Parenting issuesDepressionADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAvoidant personalityCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessHoardingImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSmoking / vaping cessationWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

Mississippi

Languages

English

How his approaches translate to online work

Client-Centered Therapy centers on listening closely and following your lead to understand what matters. It helps when someone needs a steady, nonjudgmental space to talk through identity and relationship questions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying thought and behavior patterns, trying small experiments, and tracking results to reduce symptoms like depression or anger. Mindfulness Therapy uses simple attention and breathing practices to ease stress and increase awareness of automatic reactions.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. He collaborates with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That means checking in often and adjusting plans if something isn't helping.

Confirm the available session formats before booking so you know how sessions will be held. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life by saving travel time, allowing shorter check-ins when needed, or offering sessions during a lunch break. It also makes it possible to continue momentum between appointments with practical homework and tracking that can be reviewed together.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does this counselor address?

He supports people with midlife questions plus relationship strain, anger, self-esteem, career decisions, parenting worries, depression, and ADHD.

How does he approach therapy with clients?

His style is collaborative and practical, using goal-setting and tailored interventions. He focuses on clear steps you can try between sessions.

What experience does he bring to sessions?

He has five years of direct counseling experience and a background in school leadership roles that inform his practical approach.

What credentials and location apply to this counselor?

He holds a Master of Science in organizational counseling psychology and is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) practicing in Mississippi.

Which languages are supported for therapy?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with him?

He is not accepting international clients at this time.

How are sessions priced and billed?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What steps are involved in starting therapy?

Choose the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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