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Dr. Frederick  Smoot

Dr. Frederick Smoot, LMFT

Therapist · California · 5+ years of experience

Compassionate therapist for life transitions

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  • Values-based work
  • Practical strategies
  • Calm and direct

About Frederick

Dr. Frederick Smoot is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California. He brings five years of experience and a calm, straightforward presence to sessions. He aims to help people navigate stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, addictions, and midlife changes.

He keeps a warm and curious style in the room. He listens closely and speaks honestly. Sessions focus on clear goals shaped together, with attention to what matters most to each person. Practical strategies and moment-to-moment support are blended with a respectful, non-shaming approach.

Dr. Smoot draws on several approaches to guide work on difficult challenges. He uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice unhelpful patterns and choose actions that match their values. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is used to identify and change thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going. Client-centered methods keep the conversation focused on the person’s experience and priorities.

He helps people facing issues such as attachment wounds, caregiver stress, blended family concerns, infidelity, and end-of-life counseling. He also supports those coping with trauma, domestic violence aftermath, substance issues, and compassion fatigue. Work often blends practical skill building with emotional processing.

Dr. Smoot invites people to set the agenda and shape treatment plans together. He encourages straightforward conversation about goals, barriers, and small steps forward. If you want a clear, respectful approach to change, he aims to make the work understandable and doable.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepressionCompassion fatigue

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changesCoaching

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

How his approaches translate to online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck, then choose actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety, depression, and major life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying and shifting thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going, which is helpful for anxiety, depression, and stress. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes listening, empathy, and following the client’s lead so the work reflects what matters most to the person.

Finding the right approach is usually a collaborative process. The therapist will work together with the client to choose which methods fit their goals, needs, and preferences. Plans are adjusted as progress and priorities become clearer.

Confirm current session options before booking, since specific formats are not listed here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It also supports scheduling across time zones for international clients. Licensed professionals can adapt ACT, CBT, and client-centered techniques to work over distance, focusing on skills, values-based actions, and in-session practice that translate to day-to-day life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy issues, grief, addictions, and midlife transitions among other concerns.

What is his therapeutic style like?

His approach is warm, curious, and appropriately truth-telling. Sessions combine listening, practical tools, and collaborative goal setting.

What background and experience does he bring?

He has five years of clinical experience working with a range of issues including trauma, caregiver stress, and substance concerns.

What are his credentials and where is he located?

He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) licensed in California.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States meet with him?

He accepts international clients; confirm any cross-border requirements before booking.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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