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Hilary Jiggins

Hilary Jiggins , BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 15+ years of experience

Practical, human-centred counselling for life changes

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About Hilary

Hilary Jiggins is a counsellor who works in a straightforward, jargon-free way. She aims to be practical and clear about how therapy might help, and she prefers to work together with each person to find what fits. Hilary draws on 15 years of experience and keeps explanations simple so people can decide what feels right for them.

Her approach mixes evidence-informed techniques with a human-centred attitude. She uses methods such as cognitive behavioural therapy and skills from dialectical behaviour therapy where they help to relieve symptoms quickly. She also adapts work to be creative when standard exercises feel unhelpful or too formal.

Hilary came into counselling from a medical science background, so she pays attention to research and current guidance. If she suggests a particular strategy she will explain why, and go into as much detail as the person wants so sessions feel useful and time is well spent.

When short-term, focused work is not enough, she offers more exploratory psychotherapy over a longer period. This gives space to look at patterns in relationships and life history, and to use the therapeutic relationship itself as part of the work.

She has run support groups and provided counselling for a range of charities. Hilary is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, works in the United Kingdom, and conducts sessions in English.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersAnger managementBipolar disorderDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCo-morbidityDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesGuilt and shameMidlife crisisObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

15+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches translate to online work

Hilary draws on client-centred practice and cognitive behavioural therapy to shape online sessions. Client-centred work focuses on listening and responding to you as a person, helping you feel understood and guiding conversations around what matters most. Cognitive behavioural therapy looks at practical ways to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviours, and can be useful for anxiety, low mood and sleep problems.

She also uses elements of dialectical behaviour therapy skills training when people need tools for emotion regulation and distress tolerance. DBT skills can be practised between sessions and adapted to everyday situations. Choosing an approach is a collaborative process; the therapist will talk with you about your needs, goals and preferences and together decide what to try first and how to adapt it as you go.

If you are considering online work, check the current session formats before booking so you know what is offered. Many people find online sessions easier to fit into their week, allow for shorter check-ins when time is tight and make it simpler to use practical tools during the session. Hilary aims to help clients fit therapy into everyday life while tailoring techniques to each person's situation.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this counsellor help with?

Hilary supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression and relationship concerns. She also works with grief, addictions, midlife crisis and a wide range of other issues listed in her profile.

What is her style of therapy like?

She uses a mix of practical techniques and human-centred listening. Expect a combination of active strategies when you need symptom relief and more exploratory conversation when deeper work is required.

How long has she been practising?

Hilary has around 15 years of experience, including group facilitation and counselling roles with charitable organisations.

What professional accreditation does she hold and where is she based?

She is a member of the BACP, which stands for the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, and she practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted; sessions are provided to people based in the United Kingdom.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to see her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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