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John Day

John Day, HCPC

Therapist · United Kingdom · 5+ years of experience

Counsellor focusing on steady life changes

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  • Practical support
  • Goal focused
  • Empathic listening

About John

John Day is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who helps people facing stress, anxiety, addiction struggles, relationship problems and midlife concerns. He works in English and aims to make first steps feel manageable. He uses straightforward conversation and practical tools so people can start to feel steadier in day-to-day life.

He draws on five years of experience and is registered with the HCPC, which is shown as HCPC on his profile. He combines approaches like acceptance and commitment therapy and cognitive behavioural therapy to match what a person needs in the moment. Sessions focus on clear goals and small changes that build over time.

John adapts his style to each person. Some people want structured techniques for mood and anxiety. Others want space to talk through grief, relationship strain or a sense of emptiness. He pays attention to how early attachment experiences might shape current patterns, and he offers practical steps to manage urges linked to substance use.

He works with common life transitions including divorce, separation and the unsettlement of midlife. His approach is collaborative - he listens, reflects and checks that the plan fits each person’s priorities. He avoids jargon and uses everyday language so sessions are easy to follow.

To begin, people complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule according to availability. John describes therapy as a process of small, steady changes that add up to clearer choices and more calm in daily life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Trauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger management

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAutism and Asperger SyndromeCommunication problemsDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How John uses different approaches online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them. It’s useful for anxiety, low mood and situations where someone feels stuck in old habits. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, CBT, focuses on changing unhelpful thinking and behaviour patterns through practical exercises and small experiments. It is often used for anxiety, depression and social fears.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. John treats choice of method as a collaborative decision. He will talk through what feels most useful, try practical steps, and adjust the plan based on what each person reports and prefers.

For online work, confirm the session formats before booking as they are not specified here. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week and can reduce travel time. They also allow shorter check-ins when needed and can be arranged to suit different time zones for international clients. Registered or accredited professionals often use these options to help people keep therapy consistent alongside daily commitments.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can John help with?

He helps people who are struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions and relationship worries. He also supports those facing grief, anger, midlife uncertainty and issues around intimacy.

What is his therapeutic style like?

Sessions are conversational and down to earth, with a mix of practical exercises and reflective discussion. He aims to set clear goals and use techniques that suit each person’s needs.

How much experience does he bring?

He has five years of professional experience working with a range of concerns including mood disorders and addiction-related difficulties.

What are his credentials and where is he located?

He is registered with HCPC and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with him?

He accepts international clients; confirm any time-zone arrangements when booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies by location and scheduling and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start a course of sessions?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire and then scheduling according to the therapist’s availability.

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