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John Rego

John Rego, LMFT

Therapist · California · 20+ years of experience

Practical, steady support for life transitions

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  • 20 years experience
  • California based
  • Client-centered care

About John

John Rego is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 20 years of experience helping people manage stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, and big life changes. He talks plainly and listens closely so clients can name what feels most urgent. He believes taking the first step toward a more fulfilling life takes courage, and he offers steady support through that process.

In sessions he adapts the conversation to each person's needs. He focuses on clear goals and practical steps, while also noticing patterns that keep problems repeating. He uses ideas from attachment-based work to look at how past relationships shape present reactions.

He also draws on client-centered ways of working, which keep the client's perspective central. Cognitive behavioral tools are used when helpful to shift unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. When relationships are a focus, elements of the Gottman Method are available to improve communication and connection.

John keeps his approach simple and direct. He aims to make sessions feel useful from the start, balancing short-term skills with deeper reflection. Many clients look to him for help with parenting strain, addiction concerns, career stress, or feeling stuck and empty.

He practices in California and conducts sessions in English. People who want to get started are invited to complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and how they translate to online care

Attachment-based work looks at how early relationships shape current needs and reactions. Online sessions using this approach help people notice patterns in close relationships and practice different ways of responding in real time.

Client-centered therapy keeps the individual's experience at the center and uses listening, empathy, and open questions to help people find their own solutions. In an online setting this approach supports people who want a reflective, collaborative space to sort through decisions and feelings.

Cognitive behavioral therapy focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and behaviors and trying alternatives that lead to better outcomes. Online CBT sessions often include brief between-session tasks and clear steps to practice new skills during everyday life.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the process. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and practical needs and will work collaboratively to choose methods that fit. That conversation happens together, and adjustments are made as work progresses.

Session formats and technical details are not specified in the biography, so confirm current session options before booking. People often choose online work because it can fit around work and family demands, reduce travel time, and make it easier to schedule shorter check-ins or regular weekly sessions. Discussing what fits into daily life is part of the first steps when arranging care.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does John address?

He works with stress, anxiety, relationship strain, grief, coping with life changes, addiction, parenting issues, and mood concerns such as depression and bipolar challenges.

What is his general approach in sessions?

Sessions are practical and conversational, focused on clear goals and steps. He balances skills training with looking at recurring patterns in relationships and behavior.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has 20 years of professional experience working with a wide range of concerns, from stress and grief to addiction and family-of-origin issues.

What credentials and location are on record?

He is a California licensed marriage and family therapist listed as LMFT and practices in California.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are session costs handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

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