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Kathleen Grisez

Kathleen Grisez, LMFT

Therapist · California · 30+ years of experience

Compassionate therapist with three decades' experience

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  • 30 years experience
  • California LMFT
  • Focus on midlife

About Kathleen

Kathleen Grisez is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in California with 30 years of professional experience. She focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, and intimacy-related concerns. She also supports those facing depression and LGBT-related issues. Kathleen frames the first step toward therapy as a brave move and encourages people to begin despite uncertainty.

Her work centers on listening to each person’s story and recognizing the strengths they already have. Sessions are grounded in practical conversation. Kathleen helps people talk through attachment worries, feelings of abandonment, and the loneliness that can follow major life changes like separation or midlife shifts.

She also addresses problems with body image, codependency, and communication breakdowns. When infertility, grief, or guilt and shame show up, she helps people find clearer next steps and manageable coping strategies. Kathleen brings steady experience to complex situations like disruptive mood patterns and the fallout from natural or human-caused disasters.

People seeking help for issues such as infidelity, family conflict, or emptiness can expect straightforward guidance and collaborative problem solving. Kathleen favors simple, concrete tools over jargon. She encourages realistic goals and gradual change rather than quick fixes.

Her practice emphasizes respect for each person’s expertise about their life. Kathleen works to make sessions practical and useful, helping people build on what already works while tackling what gets in the way.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageCodependencyCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFertility issuesGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessMidlife crisisMood disordersPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPregnancy and childbirthProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issues

Experience

30+ years

Credentials

California

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches and working online

Kathleen uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on helping people make practical changes in their everyday life. One approach emphasizes helping clients recognize and build on existing strengths to manage stress and anxiety; this usually involves identifying helpful habits and testing small, doable changes. Another approach concentrates on attachment and relationship patterns, helping people understand how early connections affect current intimacy and communication, which can be useful for issues like abandonment or infidelity.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Kathleen works with each person to figure out which techniques match their goals and preferences, and she adjusts methods as the work evolves. The focus is on clear, shared goals and steps that feel manageable rather than on fixed labels or rigid protocols.

If you are considering online therapy, confirm the therapist's current session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce travel time. It can also help when someone prefers not to use video or needs a session that requires less bandwidth. Talk with Kathleen during the matching process to determine how therapy can best fit into your routine.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Kathleen help with?

She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related problems, and depression. Additional focuses include attachment and abandonment, body image, codependency, infertility, and midlife crisis.

What is her therapeutic style like?

Her approach is practical and conversational, centered on listening and building on a person’s existing strengths. Expect straightforward guidance and tools you can use between sessions.

How long has she practiced clinically?

She brings 30 years of professional experience to her clinical work in California.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in California and practices there.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

What session formats are available?

Session formats are not specified here; please confirm current session options before booking so you know what will fit your needs.

How does billing and getting started work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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