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Lily Shinn

Lily Shinn, LCSW

Therapist · Illinois · 25+ years of experience

Compassionate LCSW guiding practical change

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  • 25 years experience
  • Stress and grief focus
  • Practical coping tools

About Lily

Lily Shinn is a licensed clinical social worker with 25 years of professional experience in Illinois. She supports people facing stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, and big life changes. She emphasizes a calm, nonjudgmental space where clients can speak honestly about what matters to them.

Clients often come to her when they are feeling unmoored by loss, career shifts, relationship strain, or the steady burn of compassion fatigue. She focuses on practical steps to manage day-to-day stress and to rebuild confidence. Conversations aim to clarify what is working, what isn’t, and small changes that can help.

Her approach is straightforward and collaborative. She listens first, then helps people set realistic goals and try different ways of handling problems. Sessions emphasize skills you can use between visits and ways to track progress over time.

Over a long career she has supported people through grief, chronic illness, caregiver strain, and transitions such as divorce or aging concerns. She also works with issues tied to family of origin, intimacy, and ADHD-related struggles. Her experience includes helping those who feel isolated or overwhelmed by guilt and shame.

People who do best with her style want practical tools and a steady, empathetic professional to talk things through. If you are starting therapy because of a midlife shift, loss, or mounting stress, she aims to help you find clearer footing and manageable next steps.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesDepressionADHD

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

25+ years

Credentials

Illinois

Languages

English

Approaches that guide online work and change

Evidence-based techniques often focus on identifying unhelpful thoughts and building practical coping skills. This approach teaches ways to notice patterns that worsen anxiety or low mood and then try concrete alternatives to shift daily behavior and thinking.

Another common technique emphasizes skills practice and gradual exposure to difficult feelings. This helps people tolerate grief, reduce avoidance, and rebuild routines after loss or major life changes. It can be useful for coping with chronic illness, caregiver strain, and midlife transitions.

Finding the right approach is part of the therapeutic process. The therapist collaborates with each person to choose methods that fit their goals, preferences, and day-to-day demands. That means adjusting pace, trying different tools, and checking in on what helps most as work progresses.

Confirm the current session options before booking, since formats are not specified in the biography. Online work can make it easier to schedule sessions around work, caregiving, or medical appointments. It can also reduce travel time and allow brief check-ins when life gets busy, while still focusing on practical skills and steady progress.

Frequently asked questions

What problems does she help with?

She addresses stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem, and coping with life changes. Other concerns include relationship strain, parenting stress, depression, ADHD, and caregiver burnout.

How does she approach therapy?

Her style is collaborative and down-to-earth. She listens, helps set realistic goals, and teaches practical skills to use between sessions.

What is her professional background?

She has 25 years of professional experience working with people facing grief, chronic illness, compassion fatigue, and major life transitions.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

She is an LCSW licensed in Illinois and practices with that credential in the state.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

She does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions billed?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

What should I do to begin therapy?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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