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Mandika Shah-Dhillon

Mandika Shah-Dhillon, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 4+ years of experience

Calm, steady psychotherapy for midlife and change

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  • Warm relational approach
  • Person-centred listening
  • Trauma-aware practice

About Mandika

Mandika Shah-Dhillon offers calm, steady support for people facing stress, anxiety, depression and life changes, including concerns around addiction, trauma and relationship patterns. She provides a welcoming space for those who feel overwhelmed or unsure where to begin. Mandika aims to help people slow down, understand themselves better and find practical ways to move forward.

She trained in Person-Centred Counselling and the Psychotherapeutic Relationship at the University of Warwick and holds the BACP credential. She is also completing an MSc in Psychology of Mental Health and Wellbeing. Her background includes work in private practice, university mental health services, addiction support and crisis roles, which inform how she responds to immediate pressures and longer-term patterns.

Mandika works in a warm, relational and intuitive way. Sessions begin from whatever a person brings, even if they are unsure how to describe it. She uses a blend of client-centred listening, trauma-aware practice and contemporary psychological ideas to shape the work.

In practice this can mean talking through what feels most urgent, noticing recurring patterns, and learning simple techniques to manage distress between sessions. She pays attention to emotions, relationships and practical steps people can try in daily life.

People who come for support can expect a steady presence and a non-judgemental space to explore grief, identity concerns, intimacy-related issues, parenting stress, career questions, ADHD-related struggles and other challenges. Mandika will collaborate with each person to set realistic goals and pace the work to their needs.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Mindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

4+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online work

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on attentive listening and helping a person find their own answers. This approach suits people who want a steady, non-directive space to talk through feelings, relationships and life transitions. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT, looks at connections between thoughts, feelings and behaviours and offers practical strategies to change unhelpful patterns. It can help with anxiety, low mood, sleep and coping skills.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Mandika will discuss different ways of working and choose methods that fit a person's goals and preferences. The plan is collaborative and can shift as needs change over time.

Please confirm the session formats offered before booking, as specific formats are not listed here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions around work, caring responsibilities or travel, and it can reduce time spent on commuting. Some formats are better for shorter check-ins, others suit more in-depth conversation or practical exercises. Discussing practicalities at the start helps tailor sessions to everyday life and routines.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Mandika help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression and addiction, along with trauma and relationship or intimacy-related issues. Midlife and coping with life changes are included among her focus areas.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is warm, relational and intuitive, rooted in person-centred practice. Sessions start from whatever a person brings and develop at a steady, manageable pace.

What is her professional background?

She trained in Person-Centred Counselling and the Psychotherapeutic Relationship at the University of Warwick and has around four years of experience across private practice, university mental health, addiction support and crisis roles.

What credentials does she hold and where is she based?

She is listed with the BACP and is based in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people from other countries work with her?

She is not currently accepting international clients.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to her availability.

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