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Mary Koch

Mary Koch, LMHC

Therapist · Iowa · 8+ years of experience

Warm LMHC guiding practical change

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  • Empathic conversational style
  • Focus on reframing thoughts
  • Helps with life transitions

About Mary

Mary Koch is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) who brings eight years of clinical experience to her work. She greets clients with a warm, nonjudgmental manner and focuses on practical conversation. Her approach aims to help people notice new perspectives and feel heard.

Mary uses several evidence-based methods to guide sessions while keeping things simple. She often helps people reframe thoughts, identify small positives, and name feelings without shame. Sessions are meant to feel like a collaborative conversation rather than a lecture.

She has worked across settings including outpatient substance and alcohol services supporting people with dual diagnosis, school settings serving ages five through college, and correctional facilities. That variety influences how she responds to stress, anxiety, trauma, grief, and mood concerns in therapy.

Mary supports people navigating issues such as sleep problems, self-esteem, addiction, anger, coping with life changes, and questions around sexual identity. She also addresses attachment and abandonment concerns, body image, communication problems, codependency, and effects of domestic violence.

In session she offers tools from cognitive behavioral and acceptance-focused approaches alongside attachment and emotion-focused ideas. The work emphasizes small, usable steps and moments of insight that clients can try between visits.

To begin, she asks people to use the site process to match and schedule. Mary posts regular virtual office hours and checks messages during weekdays; ask about specific scheduling needs when you reach out.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyTrauma and abuseSleeping disordersSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefAnger managementBipolar disorderCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

8+ years

Credentials

Iowa, Florida

Languages

English

How therapy approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, often called ACT, helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety, stress, and making life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying thought patterns and testing them with practical steps. It often helps with depression, sleep issues, and mood shifts. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early relationships shape current patterns and supports learning new ways to connect and regulate emotions.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work with each person to try methods that match their goals and preferences. This is a collaborative effort where the therapist suggests options and adjusts based on what helps most.

Confirm the available session formats before booking, since the biography does not list them. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, shorten travel time, and allow brief check-ins when a full in-person session would be harder to schedule. It also lets people practice skills in real-life settings and bring current examples into the session. Ask about specific scheduling questions and any special accommodations when you start the matching process.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Mary commonly address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, sleep problems, self-esteem, addictions, grief, anger, bipolar concerns, and coping with life changes.

How would you describe her therapy style?

She uses a warm, nonjudging conversational style and focuses on reframing thoughts and identifying small positives. Sessions tend to feel like collaborative conversations rather than lectures.

What experience does she bring?

Mary has eight years of experience working in outpatient substance and alcohol services, schools from elementary through college, and correctional settings.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

Mary is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) with licensure in Florida and Iowa and practices out of Iowa.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with Mary?

She is not currently accepting international clients.

How are sessions scheduled and what formats are used?

Please confirm current session options before booking by checking the site process, as specific formats are not listed in the biography.

How much do sessions cost and how does payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

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