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Najma Haja Alaudeen

Najma Haja Alaudeen, AASW

Therapist · Australia · 19+ years of experience

Compassionate practical therapy for life's tough moments

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  • Practical coping tools
  • Calm collaborative style
  • Works in English and Tamil

About Najma

Najma Haja Alaudeen is an AASW social worker who helps people facing anxiety, depression, stress and life transitions. She aims to make therapy feel practical and straightforward, so clients leave with tools they can use day to day. Her style is calm and collaborative, with a focus on the person rather than labels.

She supports people dealing with trauma, PTSD, ADHD and burnout alongside common struggles like low motivation and self-doubt. Sessions often focus on building routines, improving coping strategies and working through past experiences that still affect daily life. Najma aims to create short, clear steps clients can try between sessions.

Her approach combines evidence-informed methods such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Attachment-Based work. She also draws on client-centred listening and elements of Dialectical Behaviour Therapy when emotional regulation skills are useful. The work is adapted to each person’s needs rather than following a fixed formula.

Najma has 19 years of experience in mental health practice across a range of concerns. She offers practical coaching for parenting stress, relationship issues, grief, addictions and compassion fatigue, and addresses focused topics like abandonment, attachment issues and blended family stresses.

Sessions are conducted in English and Tamil for people based in Australia. To begin, clients complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule according to therapist availability. Najma encourages people to start even if life feels unsettled, and she helps set realistic goals that fit everyday life.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Gottman MethodMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

19+ years

Credentials

Australia

Languages

English, Tamil

How Najma's approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on identifying values and taking small committed actions toward them while learning to live with difficult thoughts. It can help when life feels stuck or when someone is coping with major changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the links between thoughts, feelings and behaviour and introduces practical techniques to shift unhelpful patterns, which is useful for anxiety, depression and mood regulation. Attachment-Based Therapy explores how early relationships shape current patterns and can help people improve connection and boundaries in close relationships.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process and Najma works with each person to find what fits. She discusses goals, preferences and everyday routines before suggesting methods, and adjusts strategies as progress unfolds. This means therapy is collaborative rather than one-size-fits-all.

Session formats are not specified here, so confirm current options before booking. Many people find online work useful for fitting sessions around busy schedules, managing energy on stressful days, or having shorter check-ins when a full session is not needed. Najma uses practical exercises, behavioural experiments and values-based tasks that translate well to remote conversations, and she helps clients adapt tools to their daily life and responsibilities.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Najma help with?

She supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, ADHD, addictions, grief and parenting strain among other challenges.

How would you describe Najma's therapeutic style?

Her manner is calm and collaborative, focusing on practical steps and skills you can use between sessions rather than abstract theory.

What is her background and experience?

Najma has 19 years of experience working in mental health and social work settings, supporting a wide range of adult concerns.

What credentials and location are listed for Najma?

She is listed with the Australian Association of Social Workers (AASW) and practices from Australia.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English and Tamil.

Can international clients work with Najma?

International clients are not currently accepted; she works with people based in Australia.

How are sessions priced and paid for?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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