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Oskars Grins

Oskars Grins, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 6+ years of experience

Person-centred counsellor for midlife change

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  • Listening-led support
  • Grief and loss focus
  • Life transitions

About Oskars

Oskars Grins is a counsellor who helps people facing midlife transitions, grief, low self-esteem and relationship strain. He works with people dealing with addiction, career change, parenting pressures and the emotional fallout of trauma. He uses straightforward, listening-based therapy to help clients make sense of difficult feelings and decide what to change next.

He offers a warm, non-judgemental space where the conversation centres on the client. Sessions focus on honest, empathic listening rather than teaching fixed techniques. That approach aims to help people reconnect with their own values and sense of self so they can move forward in a way that feels right for them.

Oskars draws on client-centred practice and emotionally-focused ideas to support people through big life adjustments. He pays attention to attachment and intimacy concerns and to how past wounds can affect current relationships. Practical topics such as sleep, work pressure, addiction and caring responsibilities are also addressed in ordinary language.

He has six years of experience working with people affected by cancer, health anxiety and bereavement, including end-of-life and palliative contexts. This background informs his work with grief that has become stuck and with other long-term losses.

Sessions are conducted in English from the United Kingdom. He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. To begin, a short matching questionnaire is completed and sessions are scheduled according to availability.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualityWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Approaches that guide online sessions

Oskars works from a client-centred approach which focuses on empathic listening, acceptance and helping people reconnect with their own values. This way of working helps when life shifts or identity questions need space and time to be understood.

He also uses emotionally-focused ideas that pay attention to feelings in relationships and how attachment patterns shape current struggles. This can be useful for intimacy-related worries, grief that feels stuck and repeated relationship problems.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with the client about goals and preferences and together decide which elements of client-centred or emotionally-focused work suit the situation best. That choice is collaborative and can change as needs evolve.

Practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions into a busy life and reducing travel time, which can make it easier to keep continuity when juggling work, caregiving or treatment schedules. Because session formats were not specified in the biography, confirm the exact online or in-person options before booking so arrangements match your daily routine.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he help with?

He supports people with midlife change, grief, low self-esteem, relationship issues and addiction, among other concerns listed on his profile.

What is his therapeutic style?

His work is person-centred with emotionally-focused elements, emphasising empathic listening and a non-judgemental stance rather than teaching fixed techniques.

How much experience does he have?

He has six years of experience working therapeutically with people in areas such as bereavement, health anxiety and life change.

What credentials and base does he have?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP, and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are offered?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with him?

He is not accepting international clients at this time and works with people located in the United Kingdom.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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