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Patrick Whelan

Patrick Whelan, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 4+ years of experience

Pragmatic counsellor for midlife challenges

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  • Motivational style
  • Integrative approach
  • BACP registered

About Patrick

Patrick Whelan is a counsellor registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). He has four years of professional experience and offers a calm, practical approach for people facing midlife challenges and related stresses. Patrick aims to make beginning therapy straightforward and approachable for someone who is unsure what to expect.

He commonly helps people who are experiencing anxiety, depression, workplace burnout and low self‑esteem. He also supports those dealing with relationship strain, addiction, grief and major life changes. Practical coping strategies are offered alongside space to talk through painful experiences such as trauma and loss.

Patrick describes his style as motivational and pragmatic. He works collaboratively to set goals and builds a plan that suits each person’s situation. He can use cognitive behavioural techniques when clients want structured skills and exercises to manage thoughts, feelings and behaviours.

His training is integrative, which means he draws on several approaches rather than following a single method. That lets him adapt sessions to what helps each person most - for example combining skills practice with open conversation about feelings and relationships.

Patrick has recent experience supporting healthcare staff through crisis situations and uses that background to inform how he helps people cope under pressure. He welcomes enquiries from people both in the United Kingdom and internationally, and offers guidance on next steps when someone decides to start therapy.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBody imageCancerCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSocial anxiety and phobiaVisually impairedWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Experience

4+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Patrick uses evidence‑based techniques such as cognitive behavioural approaches and integrative counselling methods to help people make practical changes. Cognitive behavioural methods focus on identifying unhelpful thoughts and trying small experiments or exercises to change how daily feelings and behaviours play out. Integrative counselling blends talking therapy with targeted tools so sessions can shift between exploring feelings and practising coping skills.

Choosing the right approach is part of the process and is done together. Patrick will discuss your goals and preferences and then suggest ways of working that fit your needs. That collaborative decision can change over time as you try different techniques and discover what helps most.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so please confirm the available online options when you arrange sessions. In general, online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, reduce travel time and allow shorter check‑ins when days are tight. It can also make it simple to continue support across different locations while you and the counsellor decide which techniques work best for you.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Patrick address?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, workplace burnout, relationship strain, addictions, grief and midlife change among other issues.

What is his therapeutic style like?

His style is motivational and pragmatic, combining conversation with practical strategies to help cope with daily challenges.

What experience does he bring?

Patrick has four years of professional experience and recent work supporting NHS healthcare staff during crisis periods.

What are his credentials and location?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises from the United Kingdom.

Which languages and international options are available?

Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.

Which session formats does he offer?

The original biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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