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Paula Saby

Paula Saby, AHPRA

Therapist · Australia · 20+ years of experience

Practical support for stress and life changes

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  • Down-to-earth guidance
  • Focus on small goals
  • Support for midlife shifts

About Paula

Paula Saby is an AHPRA-credentialed counsellor with twenty years of professional experience. She focuses on stress, anxiety, life transitions and issues common in midlife. Paula aims to make the first step feel less daunting and will acknowledge the courage it takes to start therapy.

Paula keeps sessions straightforward and practical. She helps people talk through worries about parenting, self-esteem and motivation. She also works with LGBT concerns and common relationship challenges such as communication or commitment issues.

Her approach is collaborative and down-to-earth. Paula listens first, then helps clients set small, achievable goals. Conversations often include strategies for day-to-day coping and ways to test new behaviours between sessions.

Paula also supports people facing family stress, caregiver burnout, feelings of isolation, guilt and shame, and decisions around separation or divorce. She can help people notice patterns such as codependency, control struggles or issues around forgiveness and jealousy.

Over her career Paula has used evidence-informed methods to help people find clearer direction and build practical skills. She works in English in Australia and encourages people to take the step to start a conversation when they are ready.

Areas of expertise

Additional focus areas

Attachment issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisNarcissismSelf-harmSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Australia

Languages

English

How Paula's approaches work in online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, focuses on clarifying what matters to a person and taking action that matches those values. It helps when someone is stuck by teaching simple steps to notice thoughts and move toward meaningful activity. Motivational Interviewing is a short, conversational way to build a person’s own reasons for change and strengthen motivation. It works well for issues like low motivation or mixed feelings about new choices. Solution-Focused Therapy looks for small changes that already help and builds on those strengths to reach practical goals.

Choosing an approach is a collaborative process. Paula will talk with each person about goals, trial different techniques and adjust the plan as needs and preferences become clearer. The focus is on what helps the person make steady, manageable changes rather than on a single fixed model.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm available options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. It can also let people meet with a therapist from their local area while keeping sessions part of everyday life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Paula commonly help with?

Paula helps people with stress, anxiety, midlife changes, parenting concerns, self-esteem and LGBT issues. She also supports people facing family conflict, caregiver stress and relationship communication problems.

What is her therapy style like?

Her style is collaborative and practical. Paula listens, helps set small goals and uses simple strategies that people can try between sessions.

How much experience does she have?

Paula has two decades of professional work experience. That background includes supporting people with motivation, confidence and coping with life changes.

What are her credentials and where is she based?

Paula is credentialed with AHPRA and practices in Australia.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can I work with her from another country?

International clients are not currently accepted. She works with people located in Australia.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I get started?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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