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Peter Coffey

Peter Coffey, BACP

Therapist · New Hampshire · 6+ years of experience

Compassionate listener for people in transition

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  • Non-binary counsellor
  • Client-centred approach
  • LGBTQ+ inclusive

About Peter

Peter Coffey is a BACP counsellor based in New Hampshire who helps people feeling stuck find a way forward. They use clear listening and straightforward conversation to help people face a problem, move past it, or come to terms with it. Peter is non-binary and welcomes people from the LGBTQ+ community and allies alike.

They work with clients who are dealing with anxiety, depression, stress, anger, grief, relationship difficulties, ADHD and the particular pressures that can come in midlife. Peter also supports people exploring gender identity, sexuality, BDSM and kink communities, autism and Asperger Syndrome, communication problems, isolation and non-monogamous relationships.

Sessions centre on listening closely, identifying feelings, and offering simple models to make things easier to understand. The approach is client-centred, which means the conversation follows the client’s concerns rather than imposing a one-size-fits-all plan. Peter does not give clinical diagnoses or push clients to do things they are not ready for.

People who have had difficult experiences with therapy before are invited to speak plainly about that. Peter encourages honest feedback and asks clients to tell them when they get it wrong. The tone in sessions is respectful, direct, and practical.

If someone chooses to work with Peter they complete a short matching questionnaire and schedule sessions based on availability. The process aims to help people clarify their goals and take manageable steps toward change or acceptance.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

LGBT

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesGriefAnger managementDepressionADHD

Additional focus areas

Autism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCommunication problemsGender dysphoriaIsolation / lonelinessMen's issuesMidlife crisisPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSexuality

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How client-centred practice works online

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening and following the client's lead. The counsellor offers empathy, reflection and gentle questions so people can make sense of their feelings. This approach can help with anxiety, depression, relationship stress and the confusion that can come in midlife.

Peter’s style emphasises identifying feelings and suggesting simple models to understand them better. That makes sessions practical and easy to follow, whether the conversation is about grief, ADHD or questions of gender and sexuality. The therapist invites honest feedback and adapts the work to the person's pace and needs.

Finding the right approach is part of the work itself. Peter collaborates with each person to shape sessions around their goals and preferences. Together they decide what to focus on and how to measure small changes over time.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so please confirm available options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, reduce travel time, allow a shorter check-in when needed, and let people choose quieter surroundings that suit them. Registered or accredited professionals can offer these practical benefits while helping clients work through everyday challenges.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Peter help with?

Peter works with anxiety, depression, stress, anger and grief, and focuses on issues such as ADHD, relationship problems and midlife questions. He also supports people exploring gender, sexuality and non-traditional relationship styles.

How would you describe Peter's therapeutic style?

Peter follows a client-centred approach that prioritises listening and the client's own goals. Sessions focus on identifying feelings and using simple models to help people understand themselves better.

What experience does Peter bring?

Peter has six years of experience working with people from the LGBTQ+ community and with clients who have autism or ADHD. Their work centres on practical conversation and building trust.

Where is Peter based and what credential do they hold?

Peter practises from New Hampshire and holds BACP as their listed credential. The BACP designation is presented as supplied.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with Peter?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions priced and billed?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with Peter?

To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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