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Phyllis Smith

Phyllis Smith, LMFT

Therapist · North Carolina · 5+ years of experience

Practical, strengths-based therapy for life transitions

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  • Strengths-based focus
  • Relationship support
  • Practical skills

About Phyllis

Phyllis Smith is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in North Carolina. She brings five years of clinical experience and focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, relationships, parenting concerns, and midlife transitions.

She begins by listening to each person's goals and hopes. Sessions emphasize practical steps and building on strengths. Phyllis aims to help clients notice patterns, try new behaviors, and restore a sense of possibility.

Her work often centers on relationship dynamics and family patterns. She draws on approaches that attend to how people relate to one another and how those patterns affect daily life. This can include communication skills, problem-solving, and clarifying expectations.

Phyllis also uses methods that help people change unhelpful thinking and manage strong emotions. Mindfulness practices and short-term, goal-focused techniques are used to calm stress and support clearer decision making. She tailors methods to each person's situation rather than following a single script.

She has experience supporting people facing grief, addiction, trauma, identity questions, and major life shifts. Phyllis describes her style as collaborative and strengths-based. She aims to challenge clients gently while offering steady support as they try different ways of coping and relating.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsParenting issuesDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMindfulness TherapySolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

North Carolina

Languages

English

Approach-focused online therapy that fits your life

Phyllis draws on Client-Centered Therapy to place the client's experience at the center of sessions, offering a listening, nonjudgmental space where goals are shaped by the person in front of her. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to help identify unhelpful thinking and try practical behavior changes that reduce anxiety and improve mood. Existential Therapy can help people facing big life questions or midlife transitions by examining values, meaning, and choices in daily life.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. She will discuss options and collaborate with each person to choose methods that match their needs, goals, and preferences. That planning can change as progress is made and goals evolve.

Confirm current session options before booking, as formats are not specified here. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when needed. It also supports continuity of care during life changes so clients can keep momentum while working on relationships, stress, or coping with major transitions.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns can Phyllis help with?

She works with stress, anxiety, relationship and parenting concerns as well as midlife changes, depression, addictions, grief, trauma, and related issues listed in her specialties.

What is her therapy style like?

Her approach is collaborative and strengths-based, focusing on goals, practical skills, and testing new ways of thinking and behaving.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has five years of experience providing therapy to individuals, couples, and families in a range of situations.

What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?

She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in North Carolina.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English only.

Does she take international clients?

She is not currently accepting international clients.

How are fees handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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