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Rachel Xuereb

Rachel Xuereb, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 7+ years of experience

Midlife transitions and everyday pressures

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  • Practical coping skills
  • Values-based change
  • Work and life balance

About Rachel

Rachel Xuereb is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom who focuses on midlife change and everyday pressures. She supports people dealing with stress, anxiety, low mood, relationship strain, grief and career uncertainty. Rachel also helps with issues such as self-esteem, intimacy concerns, parenting strain and coping with life transitions.

Her style adapts to what each person needs. She draws on several approaches including Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), attachment-based work, cognitive behavioural techniques and client-centred listening. Sessions aim to uncover patterns, understand where difficulties come from and identify small, practical steps forward.

Rachel trained to the standards of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, BACP. She has seven years' experience working with people who face stress at work and at home. Her background in a busy corporate role informs how she supports career and workplace-related concerns.

In a session she listens first, then helps people map out what matters to them. Conversations may include noticing unhelpful thoughts, trying new behaviours, and building values-based goals. The focus is on clear, manageable changes rather than jargon.

Rachel encourages a collaborative pace. Sessions are shaped around what each person prefers and what fits their life. To check session formats and booking details, people are asked to confirm current options before scheduling.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesSelf esteemDepressionCoaching

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Existential TherapyMindfulness TherapyPsychodynamic Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How Rachel's approaches work in online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on noticing thoughts and choosing actions that match your values. It can help when midlife questions leave you unsure what matters next. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) looks at links between thoughts, feelings and actions and offers practical techniques for reducing anxiety and low mood.

The therapist aims to find the best mix of approaches with each person. Rachel will work collaboratively to decide which methods suit current goals and preferences, and she adapts things as progress is made.

Confirm the session formats offered before booking, as current options are set by the therapist. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also let people join from a quieter place if that helps them focus. Registered or accredited professionals often find online work useful for maintaining momentum between sessions and for blending reflective work with practical tasks at home.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does Rachel help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, grief and career challenges, among other midlife concerns.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

Her style is flexible and collaborative, using listening, reflective conversation and practical exercises to help people make changes that suit their life.

What is her professional background?

She has seven years' experience and draws on work in a corporate setting to inform her approach to workplace and career issues.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

Rachel holds BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with her?

International clients are not accepted at this time.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin if I want to work together?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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