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Ryan Shelby Butler

Ryan Shelby Butler, LPC

Therapist · Arizona · 7+ years of experience

Calm, practical counseling for life transitions

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  • Values driven
  • Solution focused
  • Life experience

About Ryan

Ryan Shelby Butler is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Arizona. He focuses on people facing midlife questions, stress, anxiety, depression, and relationship concerns. He also helps with addiction, grief, parenting challenges, ADHD, and coping with major life changes.

He uses a practical, person-centered style in sessions. He believes clients know their story and brings down-to-earth tools to help people make sense of it. Sessions mix talking, skill-building, and goal-focused steps aimed at daily life. He often draws on values and purpose when clients want direction.

Butler trained in counseling and leadership and has worked in higher education settings. That background shaped his interest in coaching, problem solving, and working with a wide range of life issues. He combines clinical approaches with spiritual and reflective practices when clients request that perspective.

In therapy he uses methods from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based work, and client-centered practice. He emphasizes realistic, solution-focused interventions and practical skills that people can use between sessions.

Outside of clinical work he spends time with family, serves in church leadership, and enjoys reading and the outdoors. He encourages small steps and steady progress, and he invites people to begin by selecting the Start Therapy button and completing a brief matching questionnaire.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCoping with life changesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

Arizona

Languages

English

Approaches used in remote work and how they help

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying personal values and taking small committed actions toward them while learning to accept difficult thoughts and feelings. It can be useful for people wrestling with life changes, meaning, or persistent anxiety. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at unhelpful thought and behavior patterns and teaches practical skills to change them, which often helps with anxiety, depression, and everyday stress. Attachment-Based Therapy explores how early relationships shape current reactions and connections, helping people improve closeness, trust, and emotional regulation.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about goals and preferences and together decide which methods fit best. Sessions can blend techniques so clients get both short-term tools and longer-term insight in a collaborative way.

Session formats are not listed in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life by removing travel time and allowing appointments during breaks or at home. It also lets people use shorter check-ins when schedules are tight, or choose audio instead of video when bandwidth or camera time is a concern. Licensed professionals can adapt exercises, homework, and skill practice to work well in remote sessions so progress continues between meetings.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Ryan commonly address?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, addictions, trauma, grief, parenting issues, low self-esteem, ADHD, and coping with life changes.

How would you describe his therapy style?

His style is practical and person-centered, mixing talking with skill-building and realistic, solution-focused steps for daily life.

What is his professional background?

He completed a Master of Science in Professional Counseling and a Post-Graduate degree in Christian Counseling, and he has seven years of professional experience including work in higher education.

Where is he licensed and based?

He is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) licensed in Arizona and practices from that state.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the U.S. work with him?

He is not currently accepting international clients.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies by location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with him?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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