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Ryder DeFranco

Ryder DeFranco, LICSW

Therapist · Washington · 7+ years of experience

Compassionate support for life transitions

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  • practical tools
  • gentle guidance

About Ryder

Ryder DeFranco is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSW) based in Washington. She draws on seven years of practice to help people facing stress, anxiety, relationship concerns, and major life changes. Ryder writes that seeking help is a strong first step, and she aims to offer steady, practical support during uncertain times.

Her approach emphasizes listening first and shaping goals together. Sessions focus on clear steps to reduce worry, build coping skills, and find more satisfying ways to relate to others. Ryder names compassion and practical problem solving as central to her work, and she encourages self-discovery alongside concrete tools.

People often come for help with depression, grief, trauma and abuse, or struggles surrounding parenting and career. She also addresses intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, attachment and abandonment concerns, and the fallout of separation or infidelity. Ryder supports those dealing with caregiver stress, body image, guilt and shame, and end-of-life or hospice issues.

Her methods include client-centered therapy, cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, mindfulness therapy, and motivational interviewing. These approaches are used to identify patterns, try new coping strategies, and practice emotional regulation. Ryder aims to tailor techniques to each person’s needs rather than following a single path.

Ryder emphasizes that change can happen in small steps. She frames therapy as a collaborative process where the client’s goals guide the pace and focus. For people navigating midlife questions or major transitions, she offers a calm, nonjudgmental space to work toward clearer choices and greater day-to-day ease.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseGriefParenting issuesCareer difficulties

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDivorce and separationFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

7+ years

Credentials

Washington

Languages

English

How these approaches guide online work

Client-centered therapy focuses on understanding each person’s experience and building a trusting working relationship. It involves reflective listening and shaping goals that feel meaningful to the client, which helps with issues like self-esteem and attachment.

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect. It uses practical exercises and experiments to reduce anxiety, depression, and unhelpful habits. That can include trying new behaviors between sessions and tracking patterns.

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) adds skills for managing intense emotions and improving communication. It teaches concrete strategies for emotional regulation, distress tolerance, and better interpersonal interactions, useful after trauma or during relationship conflict.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Ryder will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their needs, goals, and preferences. That choice can change over time as progress is made and new priorities emerge.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into busy lives by reducing travel time, allowing shorter check-ins when needed, or offering sessions at times that work around work and family responsibilities. Many people find these practical benefits help them maintain momentum between appointments.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Ryder address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, parenting and career issues, and many relationship and life-change challenges.

What is her style in sessions?

Her style is compassionate and practical. She listens first, then works with clients to set goals and try doable strategies.

How much experience does she have?

Ryder has seven years of clinical experience working with a range of emotional and relational concerns.

Where is she licensed and based?

She is a Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker, WA LICSW, and practices in Washington.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the US work with her?

She is not accepting international clients at this time.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin the process?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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