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Shavondria "Vonda" Jacobs

Shavondria "Vonda" Jacobs, LCSW, CSW

Therapist · Oklahoma · 6+ years of experience

Midlife-focused licensed clinical social worker

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  • Warm interactive approach
  • Practical goal setting
  • Trauma-informed care

About Shavondria

Shavondria "Vonda" Jacobs is a licensed clinical social worker who helps people navigate stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and midlife transitions. She offers a calm, respectful approach and focuses on practical steps people can use between sessions. Vonda aims to make the first steps toward change feel manageable for someone who is worried or overwhelmed.

With six years of experience, she draws from several therapeutic styles to match each person's needs. Sessions often focus on identifying unhelpful thoughts and behaviors and on building small, doable habits that improve day-to-day life. She also supports people coping with trauma and abuse, caregiver strain, cancer-related concerns, and the emotional strain of aging.

Her approach is warm and interactive. Conversations are tailored to the individual rather than following a rigid plan. Vonda emphasizes respect, sensitivity, and a nonjudgmental attitude while helping people clarify goals and take concrete steps toward them.

She uses techniques from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice what matters and change patterns that cause distress. When trauma symptoms are present, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing may be part of the work to reduce the emotional charge of painful memories.

Vonda also incorporates motivational interviewing and solution-focused strategies to boost readiness for change and to highlight practical solutions. Her aim is to help people find purpose, repair self-esteem, and regain a sense of direction during life changes.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Trauma and abuseCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

Aging and geriatric issuesBlended family issuesCancerCaregiver issues and stressEmptinessForgivenessHospice and end-of-life counselingInfidelityJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMulticultural concernsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-loveTraumatic brain injuryWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Motivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

6+ years

Credentials

Colorado, Oklahoma, Oregon

Languages

English

Therapeutic approaches used online and how they help

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people clarify what matters most to them and then take small actions aligned with those values. It is often useful for anxiety, life transitions, and feeling stuck. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts and behaviors interact and teaches practical tools to change unhelpful patterns. It is commonly used for anxiety, depression, and stress management. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, EMDR, aims to reduce the emotional intensity of traumatic memories by using structured processing techniques; it can help when trauma symptoms interfere with daily life.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each person to identify goals, try techniques, and adjust methods based on what helps most. This means approaches can be mixed and refined over time to meet changing needs and preferences.

Confirm current session options before booking so you know which formats are available. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day by removing travel time and allowing sessions during a lunch break or between commitments. It can also let someone choose a session suited to their energy level, for example a shorter check-in instead of a longer appointment. Discussing practical scheduling needs during the first steps helps keep therapy realistic and usable.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Vonda focus on?

She supports people facing stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and midlife crisis. Additional areas include trauma, caregiver stress, life purpose, and bereavement-related issues.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her style is warm and interactive, with respectful and nonjudgmental conversation. Sessions focus on practical steps and clear goals rather than lengthy lectures.

What is her background and experience?

She has six years of clinical experience working as a psych counselor and life coach. That experience includes supporting people after trauma and those facing major life transitions.

What credentials does she hold and where is she based?

She holds LCSW and CSW credentials and is based in Oklahoma. These credentials are listed as provided.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with her?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions scheduled and what does cost look like?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Exact pricing is provided through the service when scheduling.

How do I begin working with her?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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