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Stefan Eckardt

Stefan Eckardt, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 10+ years of experience

Experienced systemic counsellor for midlife concerns

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  • Systemic perspective
  • Values-based work
  • English and German

About Stefan

Stefan Eckardt is a counsellor based in the United Kingdom with ten years' experience. He practises within a systemic framework and uses that perspective to look at the relationships around a person. He works with people on issues such as stress, anxiety, depression and coping with life changes, including concerns that arise in midlife.

His background includes working with matters linked to relationships and attachment. That means he pays attention to how interactions with partners, family, colleagues or carers shape everyday difficulties. He also supports people facing addiction, trauma and intimacy-related struggles.

Stefan combines several approaches in his work. He draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people clarify values and take small steps. He uses Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to spot unhelpful thinking and try alternative responses. Emotionally-Focused and Attachment-Based ideas guide conversations about closeness and trust.

Sessions are person-centred and collaborative. Stefan aims to make each meeting practical and clear. He helps people set goals, test new ways of coping, and check what does or does not work between sessions.

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP. Stefan offers therapy in English and German and works with individuals on a range of life and relationship concerns rather than serving specific demographic groups.

If someone wants to explore their situation with him they are invited to start by using the service's starter steps and scheduling according to available times.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsDepressionCoping with life changes

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHearing impairedHIV / AIDSImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryVisually impairedWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Mindfulness TherapyNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

10+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English, German

How his approaches translate to online work

Stefan draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based Therapy and Client-Centred ideas in his practice. ACT focuses on clarifying what matters to a person and taking small value-led steps, which can help with midlife reassessment and coping with change. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at patterns of closeness and trust, useful when relationship dynamics or intimacy worries are causing distress. Client-Centred work places the person's experience at the heart of the session, offering space to be heard and make choices about next steps.

Finding the right approach is part of the work itself. Stefan will work together with the client to test which methods feel most helpful, adapt them as needs change, and set clear, practical goals. That collaborative process means the style of sessions can shift over time in response to what helps most.

The practical benefits of online therapy can include fitting sessions into a busy week and reducing travel time. Online meetings may make it easier to have shorter, more frequent check-ins or to schedule sessions around work breaks. Because the biography does not list specific session formats, confirm the current session options before booking to see what is offered and how they might fit into everyday routines.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression and coping with life changes, including issues commonly seen in midlife. Other areas include relationship difficulties, addiction, trauma and intimacy-related struggles.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

Sessions tend to be collaborative and person-centred, with a practical focus on goals and everyday steps. Conversations often explore how relationships and patterns influence a person's difficulties.

What is his professional background?

He has ten years' experience working in systemic counselling and psychotherapy and uses that experience to work with relational patterns and individual concerns.

Where is he based and what credential does he hold?

He practises in the United Kingdom and is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, noted as BACP.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English and German.

Can international clients work with him?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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