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Steven Osterstrom

Steven Osterstrom, LCSW

Therapist · New York · 24+ years of experience

Renew perspective with practical guidance

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  • Compassion-focused approach
  • Mindfulness and skills
  • Values-based change

About Steven

Steven Osterstrom is an LCSW practicing in New York with 24 years of experience as a psychotherapist. He draws on practical, experience-based methods to help people facing stress, anxiety, addiction, grief, and midlife transitions. His manner is warm and interactive, aiming to make therapy a straightforward place to talk and learn new ways of coping.

Steven emphasizes the link between the stories people tell about their past and how they feel now. He uses approaches from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and mindfulness practices to help clients notice unhelpful patterns and try different responses. He often focuses on strengthening inner resources and building concrete skills for daily life.

He has taught social work graduate students for many years and has run group work in correctional settings through Alternatives to Violence Project. Those experiences informed his inclusive, nonjudgmental stance and his attention to cultural and identity issues. He values working in ways that respect diversity and reduce harm.

Sessions with Steven typically blend skill-building, reflective conversation, and mindfulness exercises. He encourages small, manageable steps and uses compassion-focused ideas to reduce shame and increase resilience. He helps people facing relationship strain, parenting challenges, career shifts, and questions of life purpose.

For people navigating midlife change, he offers steady practical guidance and support for making values-based choices. Beginning therapy with him starts with a short conversation to clarify goals and plan the first steps together.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisPersonality disordersSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

24+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

How his approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take small steps toward those values despite difficult thoughts or feelings. It often uses simple exercises to notice thoughts and commit to actions that match personal goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on spotting unhelpful thinking patterns and practicing new responses through short, practical exercises that can be done between sessions. Mindfulness Therapy teaches brief attention and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and build calm in daily life.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. He will discuss goals, preferences, and what feels most useful, then adjust methods as therapy progresses. The decision about which tools to use happens collaboratively, and can change as needs shift.

Session formats are not detailed in the biography, so confirm current options before booking. Many people find online therapy helps fit sessions into a busy week, allows for shorter check-ins when needed, and reduces travel time. It also makes it easier to practice skills between meetings and to bring real-life situations into conversation. Licensed professionals can adapt ACT, CBT, and mindfulness exercises effectively in remote sessions while helping clients plan manageable steps toward change.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does Steven help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, trauma and many life transitions including midlife changes and career concerns.

How would you describe his therapy style?

His style is warm and interactive, mixing skill-building, reflective talk, and mindfulness exercises to help people make practical changes.

What is his professional background?

He is a clinical social worker with 24 years of practice experience and has taught social work graduate students for many years.

Where is he licensed and based?

He holds an LCSW license in New York and practices in New York.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the United States work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How is cost handled for sessions?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with this therapist?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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