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Steven Paro

Steven Paro, LCSW

Therapist · New York · 46+ years of experience

Practical, strengths-focused therapy for life changes

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  • Solution focused
  • Strengths based
  • Trauma informed

About Steven

Steven Paro is a licensed clinical social worker with decades of experience helping people through major life changes. He focuses on practical, solution-minded work for worries like anxiety, depression, addictions, grief, and stress. Steven listens closely and helps people identify strengths they can use right away.

He favors a client-centered style that encourages people to set goals and test small steps toward them. Cognitive and skills-based tools are used alongside mindfulness and acceptance strategies. For people with traumatic histories he can include trauma-focused methods aimed at reducing painful memories and reactions.

Steven has worked for many years with people facing spiritual disconnection and can support those wanting to reconnect with Christian values as part of their healing. He also has experience with neurodevelopmental conditions, including autism spectrum presentations and people with significant intellectual disabilities. He brings a steady, practical approach to these situations and focuses on what can be learned and applied.

Across 46 years in practice he has helped people with relationship problems, parenting strain, career shifts, identity and intimacy concerns, and coping with major life transitions. He aims to make therapy feel useful and manageable, with clear next steps between sessions.

Sessions are conducted in English from New York. People considering work with him are encouraged to start with the online matching process and schedule a first appointment to see if the approach fits.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

LGBTRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAutism and Asperger SyndromeCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommunication problemsCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIntellectual disabilityLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSex addictionSmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobia

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

46+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

How online work uses therapy methods for real life

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and choose actions that match their values. It is useful for anxiety, depression, and major life changes where people want clearer direction. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying thinking and behavior patterns that keep problems going, then testing new, practical strategies to reduce symptoms and improve daily functioning. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a trauma-focused approach that can help reduce the intensity of distressing memories by processing them in a structured way.

Finding the right approach is often a process. The therapist works collaboratively to identify which methods fit a person's needs, goals, and preferences. Sessions can mix elements from different approaches so the plan matches what a person wants to accomplish.

Confirm the current online session options before booking so you know what formats are available. Online work can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life, for example by avoiding travel time or allowing shorter check-ins during a workday. It also lets people use tools like skill practice and mindful exercises between sessions. Talk with the therapist during the first appointment about how to structure sessions to match your schedule and therapeutic goals.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?

He works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, addictions, depression, grief, relationship problems, self-esteem, and coping with life changes such as midlife transitions.

What is his therapeutic style like?

His style is client-centered and practical. He combines goal-focused skills work with mindfulness and acceptance techniques to help people try new behaviors between sessions.

How much experience does he bring?

He brings 46 years of clinical experience, including long-term work with trauma, substance use, grief, and neurodevelopmental conditions.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is an LCSW licensed in New York and practices from that state.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Does he work with clients outside the United States?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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