Tamara Gilarski, LCSW
Therapist with decades of practical experience
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- Stress and anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Life changes
About Tamara
Clients can expect a calm, open tone in sessions. She creates space for people to share thoughts and feelings without judgment. Conversations are direct and practical, with attention to what feels manageable for each person.
Her background includes long-term work across a range of concerns, including ADHD, abandonment, adoption and foster care, aging issues, autism and Asperger syndrome, and family of origin matters. She also helps people facing divorce, infertility stress, hoarding, impulsivity, and infidelity. This breadth reflects decades of clinical experience rather than a focus on a single issue.
In session she listens first, then helps set small, achievable goals. The approach is collaborative: she and the client decide what to try and how to measure progress. Sessions often center on practical skills, clearer decision-making, and building confidence to handle the next steps.
Tamara works in English and practices in Florida as an LCSW. If you think a conversation might help, the next step is to use the site Start Therapy process to match and schedule a time to meet.
Areas of expertise
Primary focus
Additional focus areas
Experience
35+ years
Credentials
Florida
Languages
English
Therapeutic approaches and how they work online
Evidence-based therapeutic techniques are used to help with problems like anxiety, trauma, and coping with major life changes. One common approach focuses on practical skill building - teaching tools to manage stress, handle strong emotions, and improve daily routines. This method helps people who want concrete strategies to feel steadier day to day.Another common technique concentrates on processing difficult experiences and reducing their hold on current life. Sessions aim to help people make sense of painful events, reduce reactivity, and rebuild a sense of control. That work can support healing after trauma and improve self-esteem.
Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn't helped in the past. Together they decide which techniques to try and how to adjust them over time in a collaborative way.
Session format details should be confirmed before booking, as the biography does not list specific online options. In general, online therapy can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when needed. Talk with the therapist during the matching process to learn which session arrangements will best fit daily routines and goals.
Frequently asked questions
What kinds of problems does she help with?
She helps people with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, self-esteem, motivation, coping with life changes, and ADHD. Additional focus areas include topics like abandonment, adoption and foster care, aging issues, and family of origin concerns.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her style is calm and straightforward. She listens first, then works with clients to set small, achievable goals and practical steps to move forward.
What experience does she bring?
She has 35 years of professional experience working with a wide range of mental health concerns. That experience informs a practical, problem-focused approach in sessions.
Where is she licensed and practicing?
She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, practicing in Florida. Sessions and professional practice are based in that state.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English.
Does she work with international clients?
She does not accept international clients. Therapy is offered to clients within the licensing region and jurisdiction.
How are fees and billing handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin a first session?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability through the platform.