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Thomas Roberson

Thomas Roberson, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 11+ years of experience

Grounded, practical counselling for life transitions

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  • Person centred approach
  • Experienced with addiction
  • Understands ADHD experience

About Thomas

Thomas Roberson is a counsellor with BACP accreditation and 11 years of experience. He writes plainly and directly, and he aims to make first contact feel possible for people who have been carrying a lot alone. He describes his role as someone who helps clients untangle what is going on so they can feel steadier and more in control. He works in a straightforward, person-centred way, emphasising listening rather than lecturing. Clients are treated as the experts on their own lives while he helps them hear themselves more clearly. That style is used with common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, grief and problems around relationships, intimacy and self-esteem. Thomas has worked across schools, the NHS, addiction services and private practice. He brings that variety of experience into sessions and uses it to tailor conversations to what each person actually needs. He also describes personal experience of living with ADHD and says this helps him understand fast-thinking, overwhelm and emotional intensity from the inside. His practice also covers trauma and abuse, coping with life changes, addictions and many family-related issues like blended family challenges, adoption and foster care questions, communication problems and separation. He aims to give people a space to breathe and speak honestly without feeling judged. Away from work he is a surfing instructor and a father to two daughters. He often uses simple, everyday metaphors to help make sense of change and resilience, and prefers practical, grounded conversations that lead to small, steady shifts.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsFamily conflictsParenting issuesSelf esteem

Also works with

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersAnger managementDepressionCoping with life changes

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesBlended family issuesBody imageCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)Divorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

11+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

Approaches that guide online work and decision-making

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on patterns in close relationships and how early bonds shape current trust and communication. It can help when someone struggles with commitment, abandonment feelings or recurring relationship difficulties.

Client-Centred Therapy puts the person at the heart of the process, using careful listening and reflection to help them arrive at their own insights. It tends to suit people who want a calm, non-directive space to talk through stress, low mood or identity concerns.

Trauma-Focused Therapy concentrates on understanding and processing past harm in a way that reduces its hold on daily life. It may be useful for those coping with abuse, loss or traumatic events.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with the client to identify which methods are likely to help most, and they will adjust the work as goals and needs become clearer.

For practicalities, please confirm current session formats before booking as the biography does not list specific options. Many people find online therapy helpful because it can fit into busy days, reduce travel time and make it easier to keep regular appointments. It can also allow shorter check-ins when time is limited or quieter conversations when less visual focus is needed. Registered or accredited professionals, including counsellors, use these kinds of benefits to help clients fit therapy into everyday life.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this counsellor help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief and relationship and intimacy issues, plus addiction-related concerns and many family-related topics such as blended family matters, adoption and foster care.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

He uses a straightforward, person-centred approach that focuses on listening and supporting people to make sense of their own experience without judgement or lecturing.

What background does he bring to sessions?

He has 11 years of experience working in schools, the NHS, addiction services and private practice, which he draws on to shape practical conversations and support.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported for therapy?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the UK work with him?

He accepts international clients, so people based outside the UK can enquire about working together.

How are fees and payment handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What should someone do to begin therapy?

Click the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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