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Valerie Engel

Valerie Engel, LPC, LMHC

Therapist · Washington · 18+ years of experience

Practical, listening-focused therapy for midlife change

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  • strength-based
  • skill building
  • CBT informed

About Valerie

Valerie Engel is a licensed counselor who helps people navigate midlife transitions and related challenges. She draws attention to strengths people already have and listens closely so clients feel heard. She works with common concerns like depression, low self-esteem, sleep problems, addictions, and relationship or intimacy-related issues.

Valerie uses practical strategies to help people manage stress and change. She helps clients build skills for clearer communication, challenge unhelpful thinking patterns, and create routines that support better sleep and daily functioning. Her background in addiction and recovery informs how she approaches substance use and co-occurring concerns.

Her work combines client-centered conversations with tools from cognitive behavioral therapy. That means sessions often focus on understanding what matters to the person and testing small behavior changes that can reduce distress. Valerie also uses mindfulness techniques and stress-management tools to help with emotional regulation.

She began counseling in 2007 in addiction and recovery settings and expanded into broader mental health therapy in 2017. Over 18 years she has supported people facing trauma, grief, caregiver stress, career transitions, codependency, and the emotional strain of divorce and separation.

Valerie holds LPC and LMHC credentials and practices in Washington. The approach is collaborative and paced to the individual, with attention to practical steps people can apply between sessions.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Also works with

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAvoidant personalityBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMidlife crisisPanic disorder and panic attacksPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Experience

18+ years

Credentials

Colorado, Washington

Languages

English

How Valerie’s approaches work in online care

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and building on each person’s own strengths. It involves open conversation and reflection so people can clarify values and goals and feel understood. This approach is useful for people coping with midlife transitions, relationship questions, or uncertainty about next steps.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions. It uses practical exercises to test new ways of thinking and small behavioral changes to reduce symptoms like low mood, anxiety, or sleep problems. CBT is often used when someone wants concrete tools to try between sessions.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Valerie will discuss goals and preferences and suggest whether client-centered work, CBT techniques, or a mix makes sense. Together the therapist and client review progress and adjust the plan as needed.

Confirm current session options before booking so you know which online formats are available. Online work can make scheduling easier, help sessions fit into a busy day, and allow continued support when in-person meetings are difficult. It also lets people try short check-ins or longer skill-building sessions depending on what fits their routine.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Valerie commonly address?

She works with a range of issues including addictions, sleep difficulties, low self-esteem, depression, coping with life changes, relationship and intimacy-related concerns, trauma and compassion fatigue.

How would you describe her therapeutic style?

The approach is client-centered and practical, focusing on listening, building skills, and using cognitive behavioral techniques to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors.

What is her experience background?

Valerie has 18 years of counseling experience, beginning in addiction and recovery work in 2007 and adding broader mental health therapy in 2017.

What credentials and location are listed?

She holds LPC and LMHC credentials and practices in Washington while also holding licensure in Colorado.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients accepted?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with Valerie?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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