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Victoria Postles

Victoria Postles, BACP

Therapist · United Kingdom · 5+ years of experience

Calm relational counselling for life change

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  • Person-centred focus
  • Practical and reflective
  • Supports life transitions

About Victoria

Victoria Postles is a counsellor who helps people facing stress, anxiety, grief, low self-esteem and life changes. She works with relationship and intimacy issues, parenting strains, career concerns and the effects of trauma or abuse. People also come to her for support with ADHD, anger, compassion fatigue and ageing-related worries.

Her style is relational and person-centred. She aims to offer a calm space where clients can make sense of repeating patterns in thoughts, feelings and behaviour. Sessions focus on increasing awareness so people can make different choices in daily life.

Victoria uses an integrative approach that draws on client-centred ideas alongside existential and narrative ways of working. She adapts what she offers to each person’s history and current needs rather than using one fixed method. Practical steps and emotional work are mixed according to what will help most.

She is registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP, and has five years' practice experience. She has supported people in mental health settings and charities and describes her work as combining depth with practical support.

Clients can expect a respectful, non-judgemental relationship intended to help them explore core emotions, recognise blind spots and move past stuck patterns. Victoria’s approach is paced to what feels safe and sustainable for each person.

Areas of expertise

Also works with

Relationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthSelf-harmSelf-loveSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyExistential TherapyNarrative Therapy

Experience

5+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

How her approaches translate to online counselling

Client-Centred Therapy focuses on listening, warmth and acceptance. It helps when someone needs a steady, non-judgemental space to talk through feelings and make choices.

Existential Therapy looks at meaning, values and the big questions people face. It is useful for those coping with life transitions, midlife questions or a sense of being stuck.

Narrative Therapy helps people separate themselves from their problems by looking at stories they tell about their lives. It can support shifts in identity and how someone sees relationship patterns.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Victoria will discuss your concerns, goals and preferences and together you will agree what to try first. That collaborative step helps shape whether sessions lean more toward reflection, practical change or a mixture of both.

The practical benefits of online therapy include fitting sessions into a busy week and keeping contact consistent during life changes. Because the original biography does not list specific session formats, confirm what is offered before booking. Online work can make it easier to maintain steady momentum, allow shorter check-ins when needed and reduce travel time so therapy fits everyday life better.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this counsellor support?

Victoria supports a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, grief, self-esteem, relationship and intimacy difficulties, trauma and abuse, parenting stresses, ADHD and career worries.

How would you describe the therapeutic approach and style?

Her work is relational and person-centred with integrative elements. Sessions combine practical steps with reflective exploration to increase awareness and choice.

What relevant experience does she have?

She has five years' experience and has worked in a range of mental health settings and charities, supporting adults through emotional and life-change challenges.

What credentials and country is she based in?

She is registered with the BACP, listed as BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English and she is available to work with international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats, so please confirm current options with the service before booking.

How are sessions charged?

Cost varies with location and therapist arrangements; sessions are provided via a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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