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Dr. William Abur

Dr. William Abur, AASW

Therapist · Australia · 20+ years of experience

Experienced AASW social worker for midlife change

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  • Stress and anxiety
  • Practical goal work
  • Relationship focus

About William

Dr. William Abur is an AASW social worker with two decades of clinical experience. He helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, grief and other midlife shifts. He listens without judgment and aims to create a calm space where people can speak about difficult feelings. Seeking change can feel daunting, and he supports people taking that first step.

William uses a mix of practical techniques and open conversation to help clients set and reach goals. He draws on cognitive behavioural ideas to spot unhelpful thinking and acceptance-based methods to build flexibility. Emotionally-focused work is used when relationship patterns and attachment come up. Sessions focus on what matters to each person and on small, achievable steps between meetings.

Over twenty years William has worked with people facing parenting stress, career crossroads, compassion fatigue, ADHD and mood instability, including bipolar presentations. He also addresses more specific concerns such as abandonment, adoption and foster care, attachment issues, codependency and dissociation. His experience includes helping those coping with disasters and other sudden life changes.

People who choose him often want clear direction plus space to reflect. He supports practical problem solving such as sleep routines, communication skills and managing strong emotions. He also offers coaching-style conversations for career and life transitions.

William practises in Australia and conducts sessions in English. He encourages interested people to use the Start Therapy button to complete a short matching questionnaire and book a time that suits them.

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesTrauma and abuseSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

LGBTFamily conflictsGriefSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSImmigration issuesImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Client-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

20+ years

Credentials

Australia

Languages

English

How his approaches translate to online work

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and decide what matters most to them, then take small actions that align with those values. It can be useful for stress, anxiety and life changes. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying patterns of thinking and behaviour that maintain distress and practising new, more helpful responses; it often helps with mood, sleep and anxiety. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) concentrates on feelings and attachment patterns in relationships and can help when communication and connection are a main concern.

Choosing the right approach is part of therapy. The therapist will work collaboratively with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. That may mean trying one approach first and adjusting over time as needs change.

Session formats are not detailed in the biography, so confirm the current options before booking. Online sessions can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy day, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also allow people to continue work on goals between appointments, practise new skills in real-life settings, and bring notes or resources into a session without carrying them to an office.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does this counsellor help with?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, trauma and abuse, low self-esteem, grief, sleep problems and many midlife issues.

What is his general approach in sessions?

He combines practical techniques and open conversation, using cognitive and acceptance-based strategies alongside emotionally-focused work when relationships or attachment are involved.

How much clinical experience does he have?

He has twenty years of professional experience supporting people with a wide range of concerns.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is listed as AASW and practises in Australia.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside Australia book sessions?

International clients are not currently accepted; sessions are arranged for people within Australia.

How are fees and billing handled?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

What are the steps to begin therapy?

Press the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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